RealityLifeTalks
(WHO IS MY BOYFRIEND)
Hello and Welcome to our
RealityLifeTalks.
We are going to talk about something
new today.
Our topic is: Who is my boyfriend?
It sounds somehow right? The topic
looks awkward but its interesting and also educating.
Most people have this
misconception of who a boyfriend is.
Some Ladies say every friend of
theirs that's a guy is their boyfriend, why?? Because he is a boy and is her
friend.
Logically, literally its correct
but semantically, morally, socially, financially etc its incorrect.
An innocent guy can't just turn
into your boyfriend because he's a guy and he's your friend.
The word "Boyfriend"
comes with alot of social responsibilities.
Same thing applies with
girlfriends. Using the word 'female friend' is preferable until you guys have
officially decided to become boyfriend and girlfriend.
Now the dictionary says a
Boyfriend or a Girlfriend is a partner or friend in a sexual or romantic
relationship.
Though the second meaning states
that the person can be a normal friend.
But imagine when as a guy, your
wife tells you: Darling, am going to my boyfriend's house, the cute one.
Okay, you might say: "No
problem", But within you, something will hit your mind.
Finally, it's our own English, its
open to all, you can manipulate it, you can use it as it suites you, you can
even manufacture your own words but... As a Role model and Icon to people you
should watch and make good selection of the words you speak.
It might sound normal to you but
may impact negative to people. Its of no use saying a YES and people will think
you are saying a NO.
You are not pleasing people, you
are pleasing God through people.
Like I'll always say, Show love
feel loved but don't make love!
Always strive to maintain sexual
purity, God will help us.
From RealityLifeTalks
Johnson Crystal
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